Element Profile Quiz

1. What is your age range? *

18–24 25–30 31–35 36–40 41–50 51+

2. What is your full birthday? *

📅 Format: MM/DD/YYYY (e.g., 11/30/1977)

3. What is your zodiac sign? *

4. What is your email address? *

📧 We'll send your detailed profile and results to this email

5. What is your gender identity? *

Male Female Non-binary Prefer not to say

6. What is your relationship status? *

Single Married Complicated Divorced Widowed

7. What gender(s) are you attracted to? *

Men Women Both

8. What age range do you prefer in a partner? *

18–25 26–35 36–45 46–55 56+

8. Did you grow up with two parents present in your household? *

Yes No

9. Did your parents separate or divorce during your childhood? *

Yes No

10. Do you have siblings? *

Yes No

11. How would you describe your relationship with your parents? *

Close Stable but not very close Distant Complicated Estranged

12. How would you describe your relationship with your siblings? *

Very close Somewhat close Not close No relationship I do not have siblings

13. Do you believe your parents' relationship influenced your emotional patterns? *

Strongly Somewhat Minimally Not at all

14. Were emotional needs openly discussed in your household growing up? *

Yes, frequently Sometimes Rarely Never

15. How many serious relationships have you had? *

None 1–2 3–4 5+

16. Have you ever been married? *

Yes No

17. Have you ever experienced betrayal or infidelity in a relationship? *

Yes No

18. Do you believe past emotional wounds affect your relationships today? *

Yes, significantly Somewhat A little Not at all

19. Have you actively worked on healing past emotional wounds? *

Yes, with therapy Yes, on my own Not yet, but I want to No

20. How would you describe your personality? *

Introverted Extroverted Ambivert

21. How often do you get emotionally attached to someone too quickly? *

Very often Sometimes Rarely Never

22. How do you typically express love? *

Through emotional closeness and vulnerability Through acts of service Through physical touch and affection Through attention and communication I struggle to express love consistently

23. Do you struggle with self-esteem or self-worth in relationships? *

Yes Sometimes Rarely No

24. How important is physical affection for you? *

Extremely important Moderately important Slightly important Not important

25. Would you support a partner through financial hardship? *

Absolutely Yes, depending on the situation Unsure No

26. Do you believe long-distance relationships can work? *

Yes Possibly, with effort Rarely No

27. Would you relocate for love? *

Yes Maybe Only under certain conditions No

28. How do you respond when someone is emotionally unavailable to you? *

I try harder to connect I pull away I express my needs clearly I detach or lose interest

29. What do you need most in a relationship to feel secure? *

Consistency Affection Reassurance Space Communication

30. Have you ever attended therapy or counseling? *

Yes, consistently Yes, occasionally No, but I'm open to it No

31. Have you addressed your childhood or emotional trauma? *

Fully Partially Not yet I don't believe I have trauma

32. How would you describe your emotional awareness? *

Highly self-aware Moderately self-aware Still learning Not very aware

33. Do you identify as religious, spiritual, both, or neither? *

Religious Spiritual Both Neither

34. Are you willing to learn new skills that improve your relationships? *

Yes, always Yes, sometimes Only if needed No

35. Do you believe emotional growth is necessary for love to last? *

Yes Somewhat Rarely No

36. Do you believe you can find true, lasting love? *

Absolutely I hope so Unsure No

37. How do you respond during conflict? *

I communicate openly I avoid conflict and shut down emotionally I get aggressive I get defensive

38. How important is communication in a relationship? *

Extremely important Important Somewhat important Not very important

39. How important is consistency from a partner? *

Extremely important Important Somewhat important Not important

40. Can a relationship survive without strong communication? *

No Only with great effort Maybe Yes

41. When your actions affect your partner, how do you respond? *

I take responsibility immediately I need time, then I take responsibility I get defensive at first, then reflect I struggle with accountability

42. How do you prefer to resolve misunderstandings? *

Talking calmly and openly Giving space and revisiting later Messaging instead of talking Avoiding confrontation

43. How often do you initiate deep conversations? *

Frequently Sometimes Rarely Never

44. How comfortable are you expressing your emotions? *

Very comfortable Somewhat comfortable Not very comfortable Uncomfortable

45. Do you consider yourself a supportive partner? *

Yes, emotionally and practically Mostly emotionally Mostly practically I struggle with support

46. Do you believe household roles should follow traditional gender roles? *

Yes Somewhat Rarely No

47. Do you believe in a 50/50 partnership? *

Yes Mostly Sometimes No

48. Would you date someone with a different financial level than you? *

Yes Maybe Only if they are stable No

49. How important is financial stability in a partner? *

Very important Somewhat important Not very important Not important

50. Are you willing to do emotional "repair work" after conflict? *

Always Usually Sometimes No

51. What physical type do you prefer in a partner? *

Athletic Slim Tall Curvy Doesn't matter

52. Do you like animals? *

Yes No

53. Do you have pets? *

Dog Cat Other No

54. Have you traveled outside the US? *

Yes No

55. What's your stance on children? *

✅ I love kids and definitely want them in my future 💛 I like children and I'm open to having them someday 🤔 I'm neutral/unsure about children right now 🤷 I'm okay with children but I don't need them to feel fulfilled 👶 I have children and love them but I don't want to have more kids 👪 I have children and want to have more kids 🚫 I don't want children, but I like being around them occasionally ⛔ I don't like children and I never want to have them

56. What's your relationship with drinking and smoking? *

I don't drink or smoke at all I drink socially, but I don't smoke I drink regularly, but I don't smoke I don't drink, but I smoke occasionally I don't drink, but I smoke regularly I drink socially and smoke occasionally I drink regularly and smoke occasionally I drink regularly and smoke regularly

57. Do you prefer pharmaceutical or natural remedies? *

Pharmaceuticals Natural herbs Both Neither

58. Are you into sports? *

Yes Sometimes No

59. Do you enjoy nature? *

Yes Sometimes No

60. Do you have a passport? *

Yes No

61. What best describes your diet? *

Vegan Vegetarian Meat-eater Flexible eater

62. How often do you go to clubs or nightlife events? *

Frequently Occasionally Rarely Never

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